The Kelly+Partners Post - US edition - Issue 4 - April 2024

In this edition, Kelly+Partners' CEO and Founder, Brett Kelly, chats to basketball legend, Shaquille O'Neal, about how his family upbringing, personal values and commitment to teamwork have helped build a business empire valued at US$400million. Plus, get tips on managing financial stress and take a look at life lessons learnt from The Late Charlie Munger and former Hoyts CEO, Peter Ivany.

1.

THERE’S NO NEED TO

SWAP THE SUIT AND

TIE FOR ROBES

Meditation can be done anywhere – in an

office chair, on the bus, in your car (while

a passenger or parked of course) on a

lounge, sitting up in a bed. There’s no need

to tie yourself in knots like a pretzel. Just sit

comfortably with

your back supported.

2.

WHAT TO THINK

ABOUT THINKING

One of the most common misnomers about

meditation is that the mind needs to be

silent. The fact is thoughts will come for even

the most experienced meditator. Instead

of fighting thoughts, just observe them and

bring yourself back to your breath. The more

you practice this, the easier it gets and the

sooner you discover that the key to silencing

the mind is being completely indifferent to all

of your thoughts.

3.

IT’S AS SIMPLE AS

BREATHING

Close your eyes and take a few deep

conscious breaths. Now allow your breath

to fall into its own natural rhythm. Keep your

gentle awareness on the breath, noticing the

way your stomach expands and contracts

and the way your breath feels as it goes in

and out of your nostrils. Thoughts will pop

up and that’s completely OK. If thoughts

come, just smile inside and gently bring your

awareness back to the breath.

4.

IT’S NOT A STILLNESS

COMPETITION

If you need to scratch an itch or shift to get

comfy, you can. There’s no right or wrong

way to do it, so just sit comfortably and relax.

5.

DON’T TRY TO

MEDITATE

Meditation might be the only time in life

where not striving hard for a goal is actually

beneficial. When we meditate we’re not

trying to achieve anything or get anywhere.

The process is the goal. We’re not interested

in trying to control the mind or stop the flow

of thoughts.

6.

START SHORT

To start with, practice this simple meditation

technique every morning for five minutes.

As you become more comfortable you can

slowly increase the time to 10/15 minutes.

7.

GO FOR QUANTITY

OVER QUALITY

No, that isn't a typo. When it comes to

meditation, the saying ‘quality over quantity’

doesn’t apply. Instead, you should practice

being completely unconcerned about the

quality of your meditations and instead strive

for quantity. In other words, be as consistent

as possible. The quality of your life will

improve the more you sit.

8.

PUT IT ON YOUR

‘NOT TO DO LIST’

For many people the thought of adding

another thing to the ‘to do list’ is

unfathomable. Rather than thinking of

meditation as another thing we have to do,

try reframing it as 10 minutes to ourselves

with absolutely nothing to do.

9.

WE’RE NOT

PRACTICING TO GET

GOOD AT MEDITATING

We don’t meditate for the experience that

we have during the meditation. We meditate

because it enriches our life in every way.

10.

MEDITATION IS

NOT MEDITATION

There is a myriad of different meditation

techniques out there, with differing degrees

of difficulty and results. If you want to go

deeper with your practice, it’s good to find a

technique and teacher that suits you.

Marcus Hamill is a filmmaker,

writer and meditation teacher.

For more info visit

www.mh-meditation.com

10 SIMPLE MEDITATION TIPS

TO GET YOU STARTED

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